Old-School Relaxer Myths That Need to Die (And the Truth Instead)

For decades, relaxers have been a trusted go-to for Black women looking to manage their hair with ease and versatility. But along with that long history comes a whole lot of misinformation—some of which is still circulating today. Whether passed down from the salon chair or whispered between aunties, these myths can keep us from caring for our relaxed hair the way it deserves.

Let’s set the record straight. Here are the most common old-school relaxer myths that need to go—and the truth you should know instead.

Myth 1: A tingling or burning scalp means it's working.

Truth: A tingling scalp is not a sign of “progress”—it’s a sign of damage.

The idea that burning means the relaxer is doing its job has led to countless cases of scalp irritation, burns, and long-term sensitivity. A well-formulated relaxer should never burn when used properly. If it does, your scalp may have been irritated from recent washing, scratching, or not being protected before application.

Pro tip: Always base your scalp with a petroleum-based product before relaxing and avoid washing your hair 5–7 days prior.

Myth 2: Relaxers stop your hair from growing.

Truth: Relaxers don’t stop growth—they affect how well you retain length.

Hair continues to grow from the scalp regardless of chemical treatments. What relaxers can do, however, is weaken the hair shaft—especially when not cared for properly—leading to breakage. That’s why relaxed hair requires extra attention, including regular trims, moisturizing and sealing, and protein treatments to prevent breakage.

Myth 3: You can relax over already relaxed hair.

Truth: Never. Overlapping relaxer leads to overprocessing and severe breakage.

The purpose of a relaxer touch-up is to apply the product only to new growth. When applied to previously relaxed hair, you risk weakening the structure of your strands to the point of snapping. This is one of the main reasons people experience breakage and thinning.

Pro tip: Always apply relaxer to new growth only and section hair beforehand to control application.

Myth 4: Relaxed hair is “unhealthy” or less versatile.

Truth: Relaxed hair can be just as healthy and versatile—with the right care.

With today’s innovations in hair care (and better access to science-backed information), relaxed hair no longer has to mean dry, brittle, or limited. Protective styling, heat-free methods, and proper maintenance can all be part of a healthy relaxed hair routine. And unlike most relaxers, MJ's Mane's Signature Care System, infuses your hair with quality-natural ingredients that promote hair strength and growth retention.

Myth 5: You can’t color relaxed hair.

Truth: You can—but it must be timed carefully and done with caution.

Both relaxers and dyes are chemical processes that alter your hair's structure. If you want to do both, space them out by at least 2–3 weeks and prioritize deep conditioning before and after each treatment. Bleach or high-lift color on relaxed hair should only be done by professionals.

Final Thoughts

Relaxers have evolved—and so should the conversation around them. At MJ’s Mane, we believe in empowering women with the tools, education, and products they need to feel confident about their hair choices.

Our Signature Relaxer System is being designed with modern formulas, safe ingredients, and a better understanding of Black hair at its core. No more myths. Just truth, care, and confidence.

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